9 Ways to Combat Fear

9 Ways To Combat Fear during Pandemic

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Fear gets to the best of us, whether it is fear of failure, fear of success or even fear of fear. All of us have experienced fear at some point in our lives and it can be a real stumbling block that holds us back from being truly successful.

Fear can’t hold you back forever, if you don’t let it. There are several ways to overcome fear, here are my top 9:

  1. SEPARATE REALITY FROM PERCEPTION

Ask yourself what is really going on, locate the facts and place them over your feelings.

  1. IDENTIFY THE TRIGGER

Figure out what it is in a situation that triggers you. Learning to identify it will help you learn to combat it.

  1. KNOW WHERE FEAR LIVES IN YOUR BODY

A lot of times, fear takes over physically. It affects different people different ways. Identify if/how it affects your physical body and do the work to take care of your body. Ex: if you hold stress in your back, you can learn stretches, foam rolling, etc. to avoid the pain.  Do you know that different pain areas of your body will tell you what you are fearful of?  

  1. PRACTICE GRATITUDE

Everyday, list out 1-3 things you are thankful for. It doesn’t matter how big or small it is, gratitude helps shift the mind into a positive light, which overtime, overcomes fear.

  1. LISTEN TO YOUR INNER VOICE

Monitor your inner conversations. If you wouldn’t say it to a friend, don’t say it to yourself. Speak positively to yourself and remind yourself of your strengths.  You can meditate to learn to hear your inner voice.  Join our meditation community on our Instagram handle @practicalwisdomwomen. 

  1. CREATE A NEW ASSOCIATION

Remind yourself that the feeling and the moment will pass. Focus on the positive outcome of the situation, rather than the scary inbetween.

  1. LOOK AT THE GLASS HALF FULL

Perception is a very powerful thing, and how you feel about your situation dictates how you respond. So think positively and you’ll give yourself a much better chance of success. This won’t happen overnight; practice with just one thought. What is one recurring negative/fearful thought you have? Work on reversing this one thought. Overtime, this will become a habit.

  1. PRACTICE BREATHING EXERCISES

Breathing helps center your body; when you stop breathing, your heart stops beating. You can do a grounding exercise, or even just take 5 deep, long breaths at any point to calm and center yourself. It is best to start your  day with this, but feel free to practice all day long.

  1. CREATE A SAFE SPACE

When you feel safe and secure, there is no room for fear. Find somewhere safe you can retreat to when ill feelings begin- whether this is a real place such as your bedroom, or a place in your mind such as the beach. This sense of comfort will soothe you and allow you to face your fear.

 

Please keep in mind, these are just 9 strategies, not everything works for everyone. But this is a place to start. Start implementing these techniques into your life and don’t let fear hold you back from reaching your goals and your highest potential this year!

If you like this blog post, please share it with your friends.  Perhaps it will help them to improve their quality of life with a different perspectives of life.

 

DISCLAIMER:

This information is not presented by a medical practitioner and is for educational and informational purposes only. The content is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding any type of mental or physical issues. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read.

Elite Dating Confidence Coaching with Julia Shantal

Elite Dating Confidence Coaching with Julia Shantal

Empower Yourself. Attract High-Value Love. Build Meaningful Connections.

Julia Shantal specializes in helping women transform their approach to dating by building confidence, embracing feminine energy, and mastering strategies to attract emotionally mature, successful partners. Her personalized coaching services are designed to create lasting change, enabling you to step into your worth and build relationships that align with your values and desires.

Dating Services

1️⃣ Confidence & Feminine Energy Coaching

  • Rediscover your self-worth and radiate unshakable confidence.
  • Learn to embrace and balance feminine energy while maintaining independence.
  • Develop daily habits and mindset shifts to feel empowered in every interaction.

2️⃣ High-Value Dating Strategy & Profile Optimization

  • Craft a standout dating profile that reflects your unique personality and attracts the right matches.
  • Professional photo advice and bio enhancements to create a polished, high-value impression.
  • Learn how to communicate effectively on dating apps to spark meaningful connections.

3️⃣ Mastering First Impressions & Communication

  • Build conversational skills to create emotional intimacy and respect.
  • Learn the do’s and don’ts of first dates, including how to set the tone for success.
  • Handle challenges with confidence, such as ghosting, mixed signals, and boundaries.

4️⃣ Relationship Boundaries & Standards

  • Set clear boundaries that reflect your value and expectations.
  • Recognize red flags and avoid wasting time on the wrong partners.
  • Learn how to maintain balance, respect, and mutual growth in relationships.

What My Clients Say

From Heartbreak to Happily Married – Grace’s Story
“I was single for 10 years and had given up on finding a life partner. Then I worked with Julia, and she helped me transform my mindset and image. My cell group leader, who I’d known for years, started pursuing me—and within six months, we got married! Thank you, Julia, for helping me find love and confidence again.”
— Grace

From Devastation to a Dream Partner – Chui Hui’s Story
“I was left at the altar when my then-fiancé canceled our ROM at the last minute. Devastated, I turned to Julia for guidance. She coached me through one of the darkest times of my life, helping me rebuild my confidence and refine my image. Just two months later, I met a long-time friend, a stockbroker, who pursued me—and we got married within two months. Julia’s coaching truly changed my life!”
— Chui Hui

Turning Struggles into Success – Yvonne’s Story
“I was the sole breadwinner for my family, struggling to provide for my three kids while my husband was unemployed. Divorce felt like the only solution. But after a consultation with Julia, she encouraged me to take a different approach. Today, my husband and I are millionaires, we own a condo, and our family is thriving. Julia’s guidance gave me hope and a new perspective on life!”
— Yvonne

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“For years, I felt like a maid in my own home. My husband never took me on his business trips or introduced me at events. After working with Julia, I transformed my image and confidence. Now, my husband proudly brings me to his business events and tells everyone how proud he is of me. I’m so grateful for Julia’s expertise and encouragement—it’s made all the difference in my life!”
— Felicia

How It Works

  1. Dating Profile Makeover – $500
    – Comprehensive dating profile review and transformation.
    – Personalized bio writing to highlight your strengths and values.
    – 1-hour strategy call to teach you how to engage with confidence.
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We’ll discuss exactly what you’re looking for and I’ll come up with a bespoke event brief tailored specifically to your needs.

It could be a cosy style session amongst a group of friends in the comfort of your own home (with nibbles and drinks of course) or bring style to the office. Life’s too short for boring work-wear!

I will send you some workshops’ topics. This format works well for groups as it’s super interactive with plenty of opportunities for style Q&A’s.

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Professional makeup course. Usual price $3500. Now $600! Limited period only!

Dear all

Our intake for Professional Makeup workshop is on again! In this workshop, we will equip you to learn how to do professional makeup for yourself or your friends or if you want to be a professional makeup artist, we are here to help!

You will get to learn HANDS-ON makeup on 3 looks – day makeup, photoshoot makeup & your own wedding makeup with us. All materials are provided. 1st 1000 who join us will get a brush set worth $90! In this workshop, you will get to learn the following:

  1. Create day, photoshoot and bridal makeup, as a result very feminine and beautiful.
  2. Captures the elements of traditional femininity and subtle beauty with extra emphasis on glowy porcelain skin.
  3. Learn how to choose the right foundation shades.
  4. Learn how to conceal dark eye circles and imperfections on your skin
  5. Highlighting and contouring
  6. Learn how to draw your eyebrows
  7. Choose the right eyeshadows colors, and draw the right eyeliner for your eyes
  8. Choose the right blusher and draw the right way for your face shape!
  9. Learn how to draw your lips to give that pouty look.
  10. Learn how to put on fake lashes (a pair of fake lashes for you worth $25)
  11. Find out whether you are warm or cool tone.
  12. Learn how to take care of your skin and reduce dark eye circles and puffiness  – complimentary skincare workshop!

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BRIDAL $250 (only makeup)

Wedding day or special event makeup, specially created by our highly skilled Artist to complement your style or theme in 60 mins.  Hairstyling not included.  By appointment only.

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