I grew up in a lower middle-class family where the air was often thick with the tension of financial strain. My parents’ constant quarrels over money created a turbulent atmosphere, exacerbated by my mother’s clear favoritism towards my brother and sister. From a young age, I yearned for validation and praise, but it seemed elusive, even when I excelled academically or achieved milestones like moving from normal to express stream in secondary school.

Despite outward perceptions of confidence, I grappled with deep-seated insecurities and self-doubt. Though I found employment with esteemed companies like Estee Lauder Cosmetics and Giordano, advancement to higher positions remained elusive, confining me to executive roles. Presentations were a source of dread, amplifying my shyness and undermining my confidence.

At the tender age of 24, I hit rock bottom, battling depression while navigating a tumultuous relationship. It was during this dark period that I embarked on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

In 2009, I took a leap of faith into entrepreneurship, partnering with Mary Kay Cosmetics. This decision not only ignited my professional passion but also revealed the transformative power of confidence and self-belief. Under the mentorship of influential women, including multimillionaires, I shed my timidity and emerged as a poised and articulate consultant, dedicated to helping women enhance their beauty and confidence.

Over the next 12 years, I devoted myself to empowering women, sharing my expertise across China, Korea, and Malaysia with Mary Kay consultants and aspiring beauty professionals. Alongside this journey, I faced the painful reality of divorce at age 40, realizing that I could no longer respect my ex-husband’s financial choices. Our story echoed the themes of transformation and self-discovery akin to “Eat Pray Love” by Elizabeth Gilbert, leading me to understand my worth and strength without him.

My journey from adversity to empowerment stands as a testament to the resilience of the human spirit. Through my work as a beauty consultant, I endeavor to inspire women to embrace their inner beauty, unlock their potential, and pursue their dreams with unyielding confidence.